Thursday, July 9, 2009

How do I convince my mom to help me buy something?

I really want this armoire and nightstand, it's not expensive just to much money for me. I know my mom can affored it I just don't know how to convince her to buy it. Please help me. Points go to the most detailed, helpful, and nice person.


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How do I convince my mom to help me buy something?
beg and plead it always works even for me and i am older now
Reply:Ask, of course! :)


Write a small proposal for shared expenses. Say how nice it would be to have, why you want it, and why it would be a good addition to your room. Don't freak and yell if she says no, at first. Stay calm and explain carefully.


If she says no, it's no. :(





"Hello, Mother.


I would like to propose we buy this armiore and nightstand for my room. I can not pay for it myself, but if I had some help from you I could afford it. I would like it because _____ [looks nice, offers more space, would help organize]. It would be a nice addition to my room because _____ [it matches nice, replaces broken furniture, offers more space]."


Lets say she says no.


"Okay, Mother. But have you thought about how this would help me? With this armiore and nightstand I can _____ [keep my room neater, have a place for my lamp, have a good place for a clock]. I would like you to reconsider, please."


She says no again.


"Okay, mother. Thank you for your time. Please, reconsider if you get the chance but I respect your desicion."


or


"Okay. What about if I offered to help pay off the expenses with more work around the house? Or, I can sell my current furniture to pay for this addition."
Reply:tell her why you really like it and why you deserve it.
Reply:Is this a need or want? See if Mom feels that you need then she will but it! But if she feels that you only want and don't need it! Then is going to be very hard to convince her! Just ask her nicely and she you need this! Tell her that you be good and earn it!
Reply:if u want something do all the things that she tels u to do %26amp; do not make her mad
Reply:Pick out the main aspects and tell why you really want it. Maybe you could say, I'm more mature and would like a fancy piece of furniture in my room mom. Sometimes your mom won't buy you something because she needs time to think about it. I reccomend showing her the stuff you want and saying how great it is. Oh ya, and be super nice!


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